After a heartbreaking loss, we may also feel lost as a person. If you’ve gone through a life changing adversity, you are not alone. Our weekly Guide will help you navigate through your loss, regain your bearings, and recreate your life with meaning and purpose. A warm welcome to our community! Both Mike and I (Susan) lost our spouses later in life. We are certified in the positive psychology of resilience and study at the Greater Good Science Center at Berkeley. We facilitate a group discussion at our local community center to support and guide others to thrive again.
Adversity will happen to all of us…that’s life…loss of a spouse, relatives, or friends. Loss of health, or a chronic disease to deal with. Loss of financial or physical independence. Loss of community due to a forced move or downsizing.
Experiencing life changing loss can leave individuals feeling overwhelmed and adrift. Cultivating resilience is essential for healing and growth. Resilience skills empower us to navigate the emotional turmoil that comes with loss and grief, fostering a sense of agency and hope. By developing coping strategies, such as mindfulness, positive reframing, and finding support, we can transform our pain into a source of strength. Learning to adapt and embrace change allows us to rebuild our lives and discover new purpose. Resilience not only aids in recovering, but also paves the way for thriving in the face of future challenges.
With our Resilient Living Guide, we have developed a framework to rebuild your life.
Mike and I (Susan) have both experienced heartbreaking loss. I was a caregiver for 8 years to my husband with progressing Alzheimer’s disease. Three years ago, I made the painful decision to place him in memory care. He no longer recognizes me, or his adult children, or grand children. Although he is still alive, I am an Alzheimer’s widow. All I can do now is make sure he is safe, comfortable, and all the bills are paid.
Five years ago, Mike suddenly lost his wife to cancer. They had a fulfilling forty eight year marriage, with four children, and now seven grand children. They lived in their family home for forty years, and were involved in their church and community. The retirement Mike and his wife planned will never be.
Mike and I got acquainted in the grief support group at our community center. After six months, we felt ready to move forward… but how? We got involved and started a bi-weekly Resilient Living Group and weekly email letter. Over the last couple years, we have both gone through certification programs to deepen our skill set, and to learn more about the science of resilience. Publishing our weekly Resilient Living Guide gives us new purpose out of our losses. Our greatest satisfaction comes from reaching back to help others beginning to navigate the seas of adversity to thrive again after loss.
Mike and I hope that by sharing this information, we can make a difference for you. By providing skills, stories, and words of compassion, we want to help others like us that have gone through adversity, to rebuild their lives.
To thrive again after loss is possible!
Believe it and take the first steps into your new life.
By signing up for our Resilient Living Guide, we will help you focus on navigating your loss and building resilience. We hope this will be a transformative step toward healing. Each weekly issue offers valuable insights, practical strategies, and uplifting stories to help you on your journey. By learning resilience skills, you’ll gain tools to cope with challenges, fostering a sense of empowerment.
Our readers are a supportive community, reminding you that you are not alone on your journey.
With regular encouragement, and expert advice, you’ll discover how to embrace new beginnings and thrive again.
By joining our Resilient Living Guide and community of resilience seekers, you have started on your path to renewal and newfound strength.
We are all in this together, Susan and Mike